25 Jun
2010

Who killed Michael Jackson?

Last year on this date, I awoke from an afternoon nap and checked my phone to see this message from my friend Shakeel: “I am so sad right now.” I frantically wrote him back asking what happened. “Michael Jackson died” was the response. I remember that moment so clearly; the sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach–what a reaction for someone who never knew MJ personally! I know many can relate.

There will be a lot of Michael Jackson tribute blogs today, no doubt. This morning after giving Sean a ride to work, I was listening to Drex’s morning show on Kiss FM. They played a clip of LaToya Jackson saying “they” murdered her brother.

Of Conrad Murray’s continued freedom, she says, “Personally I think it’s a slap in the face not just to Michael but to the entire family. It’s totally unfair, it’s wrong and it was not an accident. I don’t understand the justice system here. I don’t understand what’s going on and why this is taking so long and why the people that are responsible for this are not given the justice they deserve.”

Not backing down from her belief, Ms Jackson continued, “Michael was murdered for his catalog,” she said. “That’s the bottom line, he was murdered for his catalog. And they knew that and they knew Michael was worth so much more dead than alive. His children deserve the truth, I think his parents deserve the truth, his family and his fans.”  -From Newstion.com

I’m also seeing a lot of people who are still stuck on the child molestation accusations and how he was a crazy wannabe white man. It really just seems that these people are ignorant to how fame, the media, and the industry work.

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24 Jun
2010

Lula at Home Depot: Redefining Success

I know a woman who thinks she’s successful because she lives in a nice high-rise and drives a luxury car. A man I met the other week at Twisted Spoke felt the need to validate himself by talking, unprovoked, about his $25,000 credit card limit. Some people define success as “getting a job and making money.”

I don’t think it’s that simple. The woman I know rents her apartment, leases her car, and can barely afford either without overdrafting her account each month. The man at the Spoke’s credit card was declined when I ran it for a $40 lunch tab. As for me, I work and make money–but those two factors aren’t what make me feel successful.

What is success?

“Athletes may have one definition of Success, and a stay at home mom may have another. A musician may see Success as a number one hit, and a Doctor may see Success as a surgery that went well. It really depends on the perspective of life you have.” -Doug Firebaugh

Indeed, people see success differently, because we all have different ambitions and goals. I doubt we can come to a consensus about THE definition of success, but I believe at its core, success requires exemplifying excellence, finding personal satisfaction in your actions, and enriching others. These don’t even necessarily have to be related to your job or career (although they should be), but these factors should infiltrate every aspect of your life.

I have a number of wonderful examples of people whom I consider to be quite successful, at least based on my brief interactions with them. They might not be millionaires, self-professed gurus, reaching thousands of people, nor saving lives–but they made quite an impact on mine and are great examples of Redefining Success.

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23 Jun
2010

Possibility Girl

“…sits on the edge of her possible glory and basks in the adulation of her potential.”

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22 Jun
2010

Existentialism at Bubbleland.

“Are you happy?” Angelique asked me.

I thought about her question for a moment. I didn’t want to just say anything anyhow.

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11 Jun
2010

Blackhawks win the Stanley Cup…and I’m over it

“You guys are students; you’re idealists. You don’t know what art + corporate interests mean yet. Just prepare to have your heart broken. Get your Africa tickets ready, baby. You have no idea…People are not crazy, they’re strong people. Maybe the environment is a little sick.” –Dave Chappelle on Inside the Actors Studio

Wednesday night, the Blackhawks won the Stanley Cup championship—the most prized achievement in hockey. The greater Chicagoland area has been rife with celebration over the last several days, and the whole thing has certainly been quite entertaining.

But the thing is…I don’t care.

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